Meet Ethel

Ethel knows no bounds when it comes to being a great friend. Just over 30 years ago she immigrated to Canada, and while she was making herself a new home here, she also made a new friend too. For privacy sake we will refer to Ethel’s friend as Mary. Ethel and Mary share a bond that has strengthened through each milestone of their lives; a sisterhood expanding over decades. Their friendship is an important one, so of course regular visits are not an option but a necessity. The pair would visit one another weekly and even after Mary moved to Cedarville Lodge in Keswick, Ethel continued to drive down from Sutton to see her close friend just as often.
After being diagnosed with epilepsy, Ethel did begin to question if and how this condition might affect her ability to drive. Then, while driving home one Sunday she had a terrifying experience of blacking out and awakening to a knock on her driver side window by a very concerned stranger. She had no memory of what had happened. Fortunately, no one had been injured and no other vehicles had been involved. It was following that experience, that Ethel made a life changing decision to sell her car and turn in her driver’s license. In Ethel’s words,
“I didn’t want to be responsible for an innocent person’s death or injury, never mind my own. So, I took myself off the road. I sold my car and handed in my license that week”
Ethel began taking the bus to get in and around town. Her friends and family also helped her run errands, go grocery shopping, and make it to veterinary appointments with her furry companion. Though her weekly visits with Mary became challenging to continue. It seemed to Ethel, that the bus was the only reliable mode of transportation that could get her to her friend each week, but the long and winding Cedarville driveway was very difficult for her to walk.
Luckily, Ethel found Routes Connecting Communities. Routes Connecting Communities provides safe and reliable volunteer-based transportation to community members in need. “Routes helps get me to Cedarville to see my dear friend…I don’t know where I’d be without Routes. They do a great thing.” Ethel says.
For four years now, Ethel has been grateful to the volunteers of Routes who make her weekly visits to her friend possible.
“I fill up her bird feeders, I knock on her windows, I chat with her,” says Ethel, “I see that big smile, and that makes it all the worth going”.
For Routes volunteers, knowing that a friendship as close and long lasting as Ethel and Mary’s can continue to grow over 30 years, is what makes it all worth while.







